The shift from the holiday rush in December to the new beginnings of January is not only a different date in the calendar. For many couples, the year becomes a turning point in marriages that are already under strain. But, why does that happen and what can someone do if their relationship comes to a close?
Holiday truces come with emotional consequences
Many couples agree to get through the holidays without major conflict, often for the children or extended family. But even if they want to experience a normal season, the pressure takes a toll. According to a study by the American Psychological Association, 22% of Americans experience stress just by living or anticipating family conflict.
Once the holidays are over and the last Christmas ornament is packed up, many couples feel the emotional burnout of keeping up appearances. That stress often leads to a final decision to file.
The “fresh start” mindset
From a psychological standpoint, the New Year is synonymous with setting new goals and embracing change. This can be a powerful motivation behind a January filing, as former couples may have a desire to start the process early. This helps people get through the required 60-day waiting period and work on agreements before summer or the next holiday season.
Practical and economical reasons
Timing also matters financially, as finishing the tax year as a married couple can qualify for certain credits and deductions. Starting a new year can also make it simpler to separate finances going forward, as year-end bonuses and financial statements may also give a clearer view of money and property. This planning can help with planning for property division and support.
A January filing for divorce might appear impulsive, but it can be the result of months of considering options and the desire to start the year in a new direction. If you have decided to divorce your partner, legal counsel is crucial for you.